Having celebrated Christmas and the New Year, we in Ireland are not done yet! We are still counting the twelve days of Christmas at the end of which we will have the final celebration. This is of course the uniquely Irish tradition of Women’s Little Christmas when Irish women celebrate the end of the Christmas Season. Although celebrated mainly in counties Cork and Kerry, it is great to see this tradition being revived and celebrations happening all lover Ireland. This post from 2012 has been read over 12,000 times, and here it is again to wish all female readers a Happy Women’s Christmas!
All over Ireland, January 6 marks the end of the Christmas season – it is the day on which the fairy lights, the Christmas tree, the decorations and the Christmas cards are taken down and put away for another year. It is considered bad luck if decorations remain displayed after this date! January 6 has many titles – Epiphany, Little Christmas, 12th Night , Women’s Christmas, Women’s Little Christmas,and Nollaig na mBan. Such an important day to have 6 different names!
Epiphany: The 3 Kings arrive with gifts
In Ireland, ‘Little Christmas’ (‘Nollaig Bheag’ in Irish) is one of the traditional names for January 6, the feast of the Epiphany. Epiphany is a Christian celebration of the day on which the Magi arrived with gifts of gold, frankincense and myrrh to honour the new-born baby Jesus, the day on which Jesus is revealed to the gentiles. Epiphany is one of the oldest Christian holy days that originated in the Eastern church and was adopted by the Western church in the 4th century. ‘Little Christmas’ is so-called because under the Julian Calendar, Christmas day celebrations were held in January,whereas under the Gregorian calendar, Christmas day falls on December 25.
Twelfth Night,which coincides with Epiphany has been celebrated as the end of the Christmas season for centuries. In the 18th and 19th Centuries, Twelfth Night was one of the most important days in the Christian calendar. Twelfth Night parties were common where participants enjoyed food and drink and games. A special Twelfth cake, the forerunner of today’s Christmas cake, was the centrepiece of the party, with a slice offered to all members of the household, above and below stairs. In 1756, The Gentleman’s Magazine reported that: the king, and his entourage ” went to the Chapel Royal at St James’ and offered gold, myrrh and frankincense” on Twelfth Night.
Some years ago I found myself in County Kerry on January 6. I was astonished to see hotels crowded with women – and no men to be seen! On enquiring, I was informed that they were celebrating ‘Women’s Christmas’ or ‘Nollaig na mBan’ in Irish. This has been a long-standing tradition in Counties Kerry and Cork, when women celebrate the end of the Christmas season, the decorations are down, the long season of preparation and cooking is over and the women folk have a celebratory meal. It is also celebrated in Newfoundland which has a strong affinity with Ireland and in some states of the United States of America where the tradition was kept alive by Irish immigrants.
The fascinating thing about this tradition is that, rather than dying out like so many other traditions, its popularity has begun to grow and it is now being celebrated across the country. Women in Dublin organize lunches for their women friends, Limerick women are meeting in their own homes for lovely dinners, Sligo women are coming together to enjoy female company – women only ‘get-togethers’ are being organized all over the place! Long may it continue!
If you know of other areas where this tradition is celebrated, I would be delighted to hear about it.
Happy Nollaig na mBan (pronounced null-ag na man) to all readers!
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A SILVER VOICE FROM IRELAND 
My sister and I have been celebrating
Ladies’ Christmas since we were in
Dingle on January 6, 2002. We were
studying with a group from my college
at the Diseart. We are meeting tomorrow to celebrate our 15th. year.
Good for you and I hope you had a wonderful time! Thank you for dropping by and a happy New Year to you!
Great tradition 😉 Surely it can only flourish and grow as women generally find their collective identity. (As an aside, a French military force landed in Jersey unimpeded on 6th January 1781 due to the local garrison having too much drink taken on Old Christmas Night. Fortunately they were defeated later that day in the Battle of Jersey or we’d all now be speaking French 🙂 )
I like the idea of the celebration of Old Christmas even if it almost caused you all to be speaking French. Women’s Little Christmas is catching on ….any excuse for a night out!
I had not heard of it all till this week when a Donegal Facebook friend mentioned it.
I had not heard of it either until I happened to be in Tralee on the night. It’s a huge event in Kerry. Cork and Limerick and it’s a lovely evening out! Thank you for dropping by! U